Author: Larry

AS A MAN THINKETH, SO IS HE Proverbs 23:7 ASV
Restoring Trust by “LIVE STREAMING” &
Building Internal Safeguards to Provide Protection and Security Larry French, MA

HEART &
MIND UNDER

Strengths and Weaknesses

An area of life that has been damaged by compromised values, poor choices and destructive behaviors.
To restore trust, a “second order” change for a permanent and heartfelt transformation within the heart and mind is required.

Home
&
Chores

Values
&/or
Faith

Trust & Confidence

Career & Life Goals

Our relationship and various facets of it.

Children &
Extended Family

Free Time & Recreation

Live Streaming To Your Partner:
Periodic update throughout the day; Take charge of your thoughts and direct them to something that strengthens you.
Philippians 4:8 … think on these things ...
Use chart on the
back of this page

Friends & Social Network

Managing $

Healthy & Strong Weak & Struggling Barely on Life Support

With what am I filling my mind?

Several times daily give updates about the information that you are processing. 1) Be honest about temptations and your approach to managing the temptations. 2) Practice newly learned coping skills. 3) Describe how your support system is being utilized to insure you are making healthy decisions. 4) Continue to “work the program” developing a stronger moral compass.

STOP This is where the temptation will be the greatest. Stay vigilant and guard against the tricks of the Evil One.

The old, out of control, obsession and fascination with inappropriate thoughts. The attraction, the addiction and the comfort of the release of endorphins and other “feel good” chemicals. The old familiar behaviors and habits. These result in shame, guilt, powerlessness and humiliation; ultimately, destruction of self-worth and your relationships. There is a steady diet of condemnation flowing from these actions.

Do your best to be an open book with your “Live Streaming” - include new ways of thinking, new insights and discoveries from your counseling/therapy, info from your support network (church or CR or SA group). Include info from the White Book and the Green Book, which “Step” of the 12 are you working on? Things you are learning from the Bible - your verse of the day. What pearl of wisdom have you heard that is helping you become a better person? What did you learn at your Two Day Intensive? Daily review & think about your answer to the four questions (i.e. 4 Question - Affair Recovery). Include meaningful journal entries that illustrate points of growth. And, are you really hearing your partner’s pain?

Copyright © 6-2018 by Larry L French, MA

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Record of Live Streaming

Date/Time	Words of Assurance

Date/Time	Words of Assurance

Copyright © 6-2018 by Larry L. French, M.A., LPC, LMFT